Why might your co-parent stop paying child support?

On Behalf of | Mar 28, 2025 | Child Custody

Child support helps ensure that a child’s basic needs are met. When payments suddenly stop, it can cause financial strain for the receiving parent and impact the child’s well-being. 

While every case is different, there are a few common reasons why a parent might stop paying. Below are some of the most common reasons. 

Job loss or reduced income

A sudden change in employment is one of the most common reasons for missed child support payments. If the paying parent loses their job or takes a lower-paying position, they may struggle to keep up. However, a court order remains in place unless it is formally changed. The parent must request a modification through the court if they cannot pay the current amount.

Disagreements about parenting time

Some parents stop paying support due to disputes over custody or visitation. For example, they may believe they should not have to pay if they are not seeing the child as expected. It is important to know that support and parenting time are separate legal matters. Stopping payments in protest can lead to legal consequences.

The belief that support is no longer needed

A parent might assume that child support is no longer required if the child becomes more independent or moves in with them. However, unless the court changes the original order, payments must continue. Informal agreements are not legally binding.

If child support payments stop, you have legal options. This includes obtaining a court order that enforces backdated payments. It’s important to seek some guidance if you find yourself in this position.